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Children of the IncarceratedFoundation
Serving Los Angeles families

Support and mentorship for children of incarcerated parents.

When a parent is incarcerated, the children are often left to navigate it alone. We walk alongside them — with mentorship, education, and a community that understands.

Our mission

No child should have to carry a parent's incarceration alone.

Each year, tens of thousands of children in California experience the incarceration of a parent. Many carry it in silence — through stigma, instability, and stress that can quietly shape their schooling, their health, and their sense of what's possible.

The Children of the Incarcerated Foundation was created to meet those young people directly. Founded by two brothers who grew up with incarceration in their own family, our work is grounded in lived experience: we know the isolation, and we know that consistent mentorship, education, and support can change the course of a child's life. We partner with schools and families across Los Angeles to make sure these children are seen, supported, and given a clear path forward.

~90,000
children in California have a parent or caregiver who is incarcerated.
Millions
of children nationwide share this experience — most without dedicated support.
One mentor
a consistent, caring adult is among the strongest protective factors research identifies.
Prevalence figure: California Legislature, AB-2180 (2022).
Our story

Founded by two brothers who lived it.

The Children of the Incarcerated Foundation was founded by brothers Daniel and Christian Cano, who grew up with incarceration woven through their own childhood. For a long time, it felt as though the ending was already written for them, too.

Education is what let them write a different one. Daniel is pursuing a career in medicine; Christian is headed to UC Berkeley and toward law. They built this foundation to become, for the next generation of children, the mentors and the light at the end of the tunnel they once needed.

Daniel & Christian Cano — Co-founders

Why we started

“We're not exceptions, and we don't want to be. Every child deserves someone who has walked their road and can show them what's possible.”

What we do

Our programs

Every child we work with is met through three connected pillars — designed to be delivered in schools and through one-on-one mentorship.

Pillar One

Understanding & emotional support

Honest, age-appropriate conversation about what a family goes through when a parent is incarcerated — and space to process the grief, anger, and stigma that come with it, so no child carries it in secret.

Pillar Two

Education & opportunity

We help students see the opportunities available to them and connect them with the resources to reach them — from school supplies to guidance on college, financial aid, and career paths.

Pillar Three

Health & well-being

Practical support for mental and physical health — healthy habits, coping skills, and reducing the stigma around asking for help, taught early rather than addressed only in crisis.

One-on-one mentoring

A consistent mentor who understands.

Our mentorship pairs a young person with someone who has walked a similar road. Mentors offer steady, ongoing support — a person to talk through school, stress, and what comes next. Sessions are free and open to students from elementary through high school.

For students under 18: a parent, guardian, or teacher should request the first session. Every match begins with a short intake and consent process, and all mentors are trained and screened before meeting a student. Sessions are held in safe, appropriate settings.

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How it works

1. Reach out. A parent, guardian, teacher, or counselor contacts us.

2. Intake & consent. We hold a brief conversation to understand the student's needs and confirm consent.

3. Match. The student is paired with a trained, screened mentor.

4. Ongoing support. Regular check-ins in a safe, structured setting.

Background

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Understanding what these children face — and what genuinely helps — shapes everything we do.

What children of incarcerated parents experience

A parent's incarceration is often described as a hidden or unacknowledged loss. Children may face sudden instability at home, financial strain, disrupted schooling, and the weight of stigma — frequently without anyone to talk to about it. Left unaddressed, that isolation can affect a child's confidence, relationships, and outlook on their own future.

Crucially, research and advocates emphasize that these children are not defined by their circumstances. With the right support, they thrive — and a central part of our work is making sure young people never internalize the idea that a parent's situation determines their own path.

What the research says about mentoring

A growing body of research points to mentoring as a meaningful support for children affected by a parent's incarceration. Studies suggest that a caring, consistent mentoring relationship can contribute to improvements in a child's behavior, relationships, and emotional well-being — particularly when the relationship is sustained over time.

The strongest approaches tend to be trauma-informed and networked: they surround a child with a web of caring adults rather than relying on a single relationship, involve families where possible, and connect young people to additional services as needed. Our program is built around these principles.

Our commitment to child safety

Protecting the young people we serve is our first responsibility. Mentors are trained and screened before they are ever matched with a student. Every mentoring relationship begins with an intake and consent process involving a parent, guardian, or school, and sessions take place in safe, appropriate, and never-isolated settings.

These safeguards are not a formality — they are how we earn the trust of the schools and families who let us walk alongside their children.

For families & educators

Resources

Trusted, publicly available resources for children of incarcerated parents and the adults who care for them.

Join us

Get involved

We are a newly established foundation, and it is built with people, not for them. If any of these is you, we would love to talk.

Schools & educators

Invite us into your school for a session, or connect us with students who could benefit from mentoring and support.

Start a conversation

Mentors & volunteers

Our work depends on people who show up consistently. If you'd like to mentor or help build the program, reach out.

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Supporters

Your support goes directly toward school supplies, resources, and programming for the students we serve.

Support our work

Reach out.

Questions, partnerships, or a mentoring request — we'd love to hear from you.

info@childrenoftheincarcerated.org

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